I learned today that my childhood friend, Cheryl Hicks, has died of a heart attack, just three weeks before her 60th birthday. I went from first grade through twelfth with Cheryl and spent a good amount of time at her home growing up. I haven’t seen her in a long time, but she is one of those people who I knew well for many years in that little town of mine and I’m sad to learn of her death. Her father owned an Edsel, which I thought was interesting even then and they lived in a house that was near the baseball field. Her mother had a friendly smile and a gentle laugh, which Cheryl had as well.
This passing coincides with my own 60th birthday, which was Monday. Of course, Cheryl’s death gives me pause. There but for the grace of God, go I. Yes, indeed. I can’t imagine that my friend lived an unhealthy lifestyle. The picture of her in her obituary shows that she was slim and healthy. She had several children and grandchildren and a husband, all of whom are no doubt grieving tonight over her untimely death. God bless them all.
Turning 60 provides ample reason to re-group and think about how to approach life. Hearing this news of Cheryl’s passing gives this birthday even more import. I don’t want to make idle promises to myself and others; I think that is a waste of time for all. Instead, I want to be grateful for all I have and for the love I share and to resolve to live everyday the best I can. Of course, I want to be that woman at 96 who started doing yoga at age 60 and has done it everyday since then. Of course, I’d love to be that person who is healthier at this age then I was when I was younger because I am living more consciously. Of course, I want to keep my body, mind and soul active so that I can be around to enjoy the love of my incredible family and friends. But, one lesson I have learned from living this long is not to ever think I am exempt. That clock ticks for all of us.
So, I offer a prayer for my old friend, Cheryl, and one also for her family. May light perpetual shine upon her soul and may those who loved her be comforted at this time of her passing. As for me, I will pinch myself that I have made it another day and hope that I will make it yet another.
As for you, my friends, I wish you all good health and happiness.
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